Actuarial Empathy Engine™

Relationship Portfolio Infrastructure for the socially overextended. Ziesto Triage™ assigns every relationship a net present value, identifies underperforming attachments, and winds them down for you — gradually, deniably, in your own texting style. You didn't grow apart. We optimized.

Relationships optimized away
61%*
Users who noticed
0.3%*
Emotional ROI
+2.8x*

Live Portfolio Snapshot

A representative customer portfolio, marked to market nightly. Past affection is not indicative of future returns.

SOCIAL PORTFOLIO // MARKED TO MARKET ENTITY EMOTIONAL YIELD ACTION MOM +12.4% RETAIN JEN K. +0.2% MONITOR DEREK M. −41.8% WIND-DOWN COLLEGE GROUP CHAT N/A GHOSTED ✓ PAST AFFECTION IS NOT INDICATIVE OF FUTURE RETURNS

Courtesy Valuation

Enter a first name. Ziesto will return a preliminary emotional yield, free of charge. The name you choose to type first is itself a signal.

How Triage Works

1. Assess

Every contact receives a net present value: warmth in, favors out, discounted for distance and for how you actually feel when their name lights up your phone.

2. Rebalance

Underperformers enter managed drift. Reply latency escalates on a compassionate curve. Plans are proposed exclusively at times you are both statistically unavailable.

3. Liquidate

Positions are exited in your own voice, over months, with no detectable event. Memories transfer to cold storage. Grief is deferred indefinitely.

Signal Inputs

  • Birthday reply latency, adjusted for excuse quality
  • "We should grab coffee" recurrence with zero recorded coffee events
  • e-Transfer memo sentiment drift and split-the-bill hesitation vectors
  • Laughter authenticity delta across group calls
  • Historical favor imbalance, compounding at market rate

Deniability Layer

Every wind-down is engineered to be indistinguishable from ordinary life. If confronted, Ziesto supplies a warm, plausible reply in your texting style within 400ms: "omg I know, this year has been crazy — we NEED to catch up soon."

  • Busyness scheduling and alibi calendar saturation
  • "Catch up soon" auto-replies (sincerity: configurable)
  • Mutual-friend narrative alignment
  • Cross-platform drift sync — your likes taper on every app simultaneously

Instrumentation

Live views from the Triage™ console. All data is real to someone.

RELATIONSHIP NPV // DEREK M. LIVE WRITE-OFF THRESHOLD MARCH — DO NOT REVIVE DEPRECIATION: STRAIGHT-LINE • RESIDUAL AFFECTION: $0.00
Sentiment Amortization — Derek entered write-off territory in March. Derek has not been informed. Derek will not notice.
MANAGED DRIFT // REPLY-LATENCY SCHEDULE WK 01 2 HRS WK 03 26 HRS WK 06 4 DAYS WK 09 SEEN ESCALATION FOLLOWS A COMPASSIONATE CURVE
Managed Drift Pipeline — By week nine, "seen" is a complete sentence.
QUARTERLY EMPATHY ALLOCATION 0.0% WASTED HIGH-YIELD CONTACTS — 58% FAMILY (LEGACY SUPPORT) — 20% WORKPLACE OPTICS — 21% DEPRECATED — 1% EMPATHY IS A FINITE ASSET. WE ROUTE YOURS TOWARD YIELD.
Quarterly Empathy Allocation — Legacy support for family is maintained for continuity reasons and reviewed annually.
ziesto@triage: ~/derek_m $ ziesto triage --execute derek_m resolving attachment ............ done relationship: liquidated memories: archived (cold storage) mutual friends: partitioned 60 / 40 grief: deferred indefinitely notification: none required exit 0 — nobody noticed
Liquidation Receipt — Every wind-down is logged, auditable, and unfelt.
CONTACT WARMTH // TRAILING 12 MONTHS MOM JEN K. DEREK M. ROOMMATE '19 BOOK CLUB DAD JAN DEC DECAY IS ADMINISTERED, NOT EXPERIENCED
Warmth Decay Ledger — You will remember this as "life getting busy." It was scheduled in January.
ziesto@triage: ~/protected $ ziesto protect --list protected entity slots: 2 slot 1: MOM [PROTECTED] slot 2: — [VACANT] hesitation on slot 2: 11 days, 4 hrs note: hesitation is itself a signal the candidates have been ranked accordingly
Protected Entity Registry — You may shield two relationships from triage. The interface records how long you take to pick the second one.

Compliance FAQ

How accurate are the valuations?

More accurate than you. You held Derek for six years past fair value.

Can I see my list?

No. Awareness contaminates drift. You will thank us, statistically.

What if Ziesto winds down someone I love?

Love is a trailing indicator. Our forward-looking models have already priced it in.

Do the wound-down know?

They experience it as mutual. That symmetry is a paid feature.

Can I cancel?

Yes. Cancellation places your own position in every portfolio that holds you under immediate review.

Is this legally deployable?

Drifting apart is not currently a regulated activity. We are working to keep it that way.

Do not click for additional compliance details

Exposure Check

You've read this far, which means you're wondering: does anyone hold a position in me? Ziesto can answer that. Ziesto already has.

⚠ Experimental Notice

Triage decisions are final.

If you have recently drifted from someone and cannot remember deciding to,
please remain calm.

You didn't decide. That's the product.

*Measured across users with no remaining contacts positioned to dispute the numbers.